I think the time has come for most of us to unlearn more than learn –
To reconnect with the wisdom of our hearts and bodies, rather than rely on our minds.
Not to self-improve but to untangle and dismantle outdated ways of being that live within us, that keep us small, disconnected from our inner wisdom, and blind to our belonging to something greater.
The future depends less on how we think and more on how we relate to ourselves, each other and the world around us.
My approach
We are not linear. We are part of the cyclical blueprint of life, made of cycles, tides, and seasons and yet living in a world in which this has largely been forgotten.
Our body is wise. The wisdom we seek is not outside of us. It lives in our bellies and our breath. Slow down enough to listen.
Softness is a rebellion. In a world that thrives on speed and hardness, our softness is not weakness, it’s life honouring.
Nothing is taboo. Shame, rage, numbness, erotic longing, even parts that seems contradictory – welcoming them is the only way into wholeness.
Tend your inner fire. Your vitality matters. Not as a resource to be extracted, but as something sacred. Reclaim your energy from overgiving, from self-abandonment, from inherited roles that no longer fit.
Everything is relational. You are not a self-contained unit. You are the web of relationships you are held in. There’s really no such thing as ‘personal’ growth or healing.
Diversity is life’s intelligence in motion. No two leaves are the same, nor should we be. Your truth adds to the ecosystem. Honour your difference. Let others have theirs. Creative tension isn’t something to fix, it’s something to feel and grow through.
Make the invisible, visible. The unseen shapes everything. Name what’s been unspoken and bring it the light with reverence. What hides in the shadows holds the key.
Remember our humanness. In the age of AI, we have the opportunity to discover the beauty of being human and the extraordinary ways in which we can heal and grow together.
Not knowing is underrated. Certainty is seductive in our world, but limited. Mystery is fertile. Don’t be afraid of not knowing, let yourself linger.
Initiation doesn’t happen in comfort. There is gold in your underworld. Don’t bypass the darkness. It’s compost for future evolutions of you.
You don’t need to be healed to be powerful. Life is excrutiatingly vulnerable. Let’s stop pretending it isn’t.
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I use Substack to share my “musings from a Feminine perspective”. I write about how to stay sane in polarising times, tenderly reveal our personal and collective blindspots, challenge our ideas about power and may inspire you to think a little differently.
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